Kentucky Wildcats Aquaman shirt and that’s your opinion and the life you lived, I know plenty of open adoptions that work perfectly, it’s the life they live and the openness that has been considered healthy for them, you wouldn’t know because you didn’t live it. Respect your opinion but it’s just that until you live it. This snippet from the documentary is far different than the article of this story. From the news article: The adoptive parents said at one point, We took what we could and saw no more need for contact. We thought that we should wait for Kati to grow and see if she wanted more information. She’s our daughter. Yes, she has her birth parents but a deeper relationship with them would really complicate matters. As hard as this must have been for the adoptive parents, I think this was slightly selfish on their part. It sounds like they were afraid of complicating matters for themselves and not necessarily for the child.
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The non-bio parents’ deliberate actions to hide the bio parents from making contact with the child was what I was calling slightly selfish, Kentucky Wildcats Aquaman shirt and not the general fact that they raised a child. No one is saying raising a child to an independent adult is without selflessness, whether they are adopted or not, it takes selflessness, love, patience, etc. Read the article first then watch the doc. It’s true that reading the article showed another side to this whole story and one can wonder about the decisions of the adopted parents the only logical explanation would be they were scared after the first contact they would’ve felt obliged to keep the bio-parents informed about their child day to day life maybe personal contact with her visits etc which is feasible for some people (plenty of adopted families have done it) but it’s must have been overwhelming for these adopted parents plus the media was involved then what if they agreed to a visit and the Chinese group got wind of the story and decide to get involved?
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Pretty extreme rationale but your mind goes to places when you’re scared of losing your child. Even now when they said “we didn’t lose anything today” I can feel that their fear is still present and of course, my heart goes out to the bio-parents who’s sacrificed their happiness with their own child in hopes of her well-being they never gave up on her they love her and missed her especially after the first contact with the bio-parents, they were hoping for more and we also can feel that with their reunion with their daughter. They had a hard time when she didn’t call them mom/dad cause she getting to know them but in their heart and mind, She is their daughter. and I get it I don’t think they can get around the idea that the ones that raised her are her parents when it was life circumstances that took her away I hope they all can heal from this ordeal and create more bonds with each other; hope she gets to know her bio-family better and she can find in her heart that place of love where she calls the bio-parents mom and dad without taking anything away from the adoptive parents